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CRACKING THE FEAR CODE

 The first step to gaining more confidence and getting some momentum in your life is understanding your FEAR. Learn the 4 big fears that hold most people back and how to overcome them so you can move forward with confidence!



1. Fear of Rejection:

If you try to please everybody at the cost of your own health, wealth, joy, and confidence in life, you have rejection issues. If you know that human belonging and acceptance are so important to you, but right now you're focused on rejection, then you can flip it and say, "What would I have to do to gain the next level of love, connection, belonging, or validation?" 

2. Fear of Ruin:

This is the fear of the complete and utter irreversibility of a negative consequence. If you've ever thought, "I'm not going to do that, because that could ruin us," you're in a ruin mindset, and when you do, now disappointment and ruin aren't even on the table anymore, because everything is a jumping-off point. 

3. Fear of regret:

Part of the reason I live so courageously and boldly, and I put myself out there so much all the time, is because I don't want to get to the end of my life and say, "I served half as well because I was scared." The path out of guilt starts at the path of forgiveness, for yourself and for other people. 

4. Fear of Responsibility: 

People are scared of responsibility and in very tactical ways. Look at any personal responsibility, or what used to be called self-reliance. That doesn't mean you're in command of everything that happens to you in life, but you are in command of your responses. 

That's all for this blog! Thanks for reading this article. Peace. 🙏

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