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HOW TO CONTROL AND MANAGE LIFE PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY?

 We often face multiple type of problems in our day to day lives which often stress and upset us. So, how do we manage them? 



Just imagine that all the problem in our lives fall in the  circle of concern you see on the right. The  circle of concern has a smaller circle inside it which is the circle of influence. This circle of influence contains  the problems that can be controlled or changed by us e.g.: The words we speak, our habits. 

All the problems that are totally uncontrollable lie outside this influence circle.

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What we often tend to do is mainly put our focus and energy on the problems that don't lie in the circle of concern knowing that this will waste our time and energy and dwelling on them wont get us anywhere. Doing so will also shrink your circle of influence and get more problems out of your control. So if u ever notice yourself doing this stop it.

What you should rather do is only focus on the problems that in the circle of influence. This will not be a waste but a productive use of our precious time and energy. By doing so you will expand your circle of influence and you will slowly be able to take control of more problems in your life.

Hope you have a great day ðŸ’— !

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  1. Blogging.peachApril 7, 2021 at 10:42 PM

    I love your blogs¡
    I recently came across it and it helped me much.Thank you.

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